David’s Great Grief

Book of 2 Samuel Chapters 15-18

Grief is said to be the pain of the mind produced by some loss, or misfortune, or injury, or evils of some kind. It can be sorrow or regret from the things we do ourselves. We can experience grief when one of our family members pass or one of our friends pass or we grieve at the misfortunes of others.

From the beginning of history, insurrection and mutiny have been a problem for most every government.

It happens more often when governments no longer serve the people, they were put in place to do.

Corrupt governments are the leading cause for mutiny by the people.

Many coups or rebellions are justified but there are some that are unjustified.

Whatever means available to correct the evil and unjust acts of governments must be pursued by honorable and just citizens.

We may see this happen in our own nation if corruption persist in our government.

Our own nation is more divided than it ever has been, including the time of the civil war when the North tried to abuse the South over commodities.

Only when a government executes justice and righteousness equally for all its people and protect its borders can it be supported!

When a government supports only its ring leaders it does not deserve the support of the people.

We cannot have a true government when that government is made up of those opposed to the truth of God.

Our lesson today is about a mutiny from within King David’s own family.

When we are suffering from grief from those actions of our loved ones we can only find comfort from the “Grace” of God.

King David was temporarily forced to abandon Jerusalem until he could organize his followers against the coup by his own son Absalom.

Absalom did many things to win over the people while King David became lax in his duties as King because of regret for his sin against the Lord.

King David was of little use in following the will of God at this time.

*2Sa 15:1 And it came to pass after this, that Absalom prepared him chariots and horses, and fifty men to run before him.

Just as soon as Absalom had gained his freedom began seeking every way he could to win over the people.

Absalom still held his father David responsible for what happened to his sister Tamar and David’s lack of discipline to Amnon and Absalom took upon himself to bring judgment upon Amnon resulting in his death.

Absalom wanted the people to support his actions.

Absalom prepared a chariot similar to what would be used for state occasions while fifty footmen ran at its side, while Absalom rode.

Much like our president’s limousine escorted by men running by its side or twenty vehicles accompanying it if it was traveling.

1Sa 8:11 And he said, This will be the manner of the king that shall reign over you: He will take your sons, and appoint them for himself, for his chariots, and to be his horsemen; and some shall run before his chariots.

David had allowed Absalom to be restored to his royal position of crown prince of Israel, and Absalom took advantage of it in an attempt to destroy his father the King.

What else did he do?

*2Sa 15:2 And Absalom rose up early, and stood beside the way of the gate: and it was so, that when any man that had a controversy came to the king for judgment, then Absalom called unto him, and said, Of what city art thou? And he said, Thy servant is of one of the tribes of Israel.

We should not think of this gate as the gate of the city because the elders and appointed judges would first handle the problems of the people at that gate.

It was the greater matters that were then sent on to the King.

Absalom stood at the gates near the entrance to the royal house of the King, his father.

We should not suppose that King David was neglecting his judicial duties.

It was those who were on their way to see the king after the elders and judges could not solve the issue they had and Absalom would stop and make them believe that he was better suited to be judge of all of Israel.

We can believe that because of his sin King David could not be a fair judge on any matter concerning such things as adultery, murder, conspiracy, and other such matters that he had been guilty of himself.

We have judges and politicians in place today who have committed gross sins and yet they keep their positions so, how could they rule or vote on matters they are guilty of.

This is known as the swamp in Washington or as one man put it this morning the sewer of Washington that leads all the way to the president.

Absalom was doing his very best to stir up a rebellion against the king, his father, who he now hated.

Absalom’s wickedness was deliberate and well considered and his grandfather, the King of Gesher, probably had coached him in many of these matters.

*2Sa 15:3 And Absalom said unto him, See, thy matters are good and right; but there is no man deputed of the king to hear thee.
2Sa 15:4 Absalom said moreover, Oh that I were made judge in the land, that every man which hath any suit or cause might come unto me, and I would do him justice!

Absalom would flatter each of those seeking to see the king and would always pronounce a favorable decision in each case and say how differently things would be done if he were in power.

Absalom would say there should be men appointed to investigate the evidence and take it to the king implying that the king’s decisions were just hasty and arbitrary.

What does the Bible say of such men as Absalom?

Pro_30:17 The eye that mocketh at his father, and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.

We do know that the body of Absalom was not buried but was covered with field rocks to keep the animals away from the body.

It was true that at times the king could be overwhelmed with this task which was too heavy for one man.

Absalom did not possess the knowledge of his father and King David was still God’s man and a man after God’s own heart, but far short from being perfect as we all are.

*2Sa 15:5 And it was so, that when any man came nigh to him to do him obeisance, he put forth his hand, and took him, and kissed him.
2Sa 15:6 And on this manner did Absalom to all Israel that came to the king for judgment: so Absalom stole the hearts of the men of Israel.

Absalom had set out to build a highly favorable public image of himself and it was working with those younger people who had forgotten the history of Israel before King David when the Philistines had harassed them and made slaves of them.

We may serve ourselves, strengthen our position, advance our interests, when we are serving others, but when we are doing them a disservice, encouraging them, and helping them, to do evil, we are our own enemies as well as theirs!

In the end Absalom caused the death of over twenty thousand men of the nation of Israel and his own death and David was still king because Jehovah had selected David and not Absalom.

We must be on the side of truth and honesty which in the end will always be the winning side because this is the way of the Lord.

This is the Lord’s creation and we breathe the Lord’s air because He has the Words of TRUTH that can never fail.

We are to be servants of faith in the Lord and only for this will we be recognized!

Mat_25:21 His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.
Mat_25:23 His lord said unto him, Well done, good and faithful servant; thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.

Absalom purposely behaved in a deceptive manner, scheming to secure political support.

Sounds just like the modern-day politician.

It is hard to get the real truth out of any of them.

Absalom received permission to go to Hebron on a false vow because he knew if he could win over the people of Hebron then he could raise an army to go against his father, which he did.

*2Sa 15:13 And there came a messenger to David, saying, The hearts of the men of Israel are after Absalom.

Ambition had led Absalom until he had started a civil war in Israel.

A loyal messenger of King David brought him news of the actions of his son and King David elected to flee rather than to stand his ground until he could get organized.

All David knew was that the vengeance of God for his sin was taking place but it was not.

Yes, God had warned David of all these things, but God was not the cause of all these things.

God does not do evil, He allows evil to take place!

It was David’s sin that had caused these things to happen and the fact that being King of Israel had kept him from being a good parent though that was not a good excuse.

Multiple wives was David’ greatest problem with his family!

Multiple children by those wives with each being taught by mothers who worshipped idols instead of being sure his children were taught the ways of Jehovah were the next problem in his family.

David knew what was going on in his family was because he had not been the parent he should have been, and he felt too guilty to deal with it at this time.

David just knew to flee somewhat like he had to flee from King Saul.

David fled until those around him proved that they were still loyal to him.

*2Sa 15:14 And David said unto all his servants that were with him at Jerusalem, Arise, and let us flee; for we shall not else escape from Absalom: make speed to depart, lest he overtake us suddenly, and bring evil upon us, and smite the city with the edge of the sword.
2Sa 15:15 And the king’s servants said unto the king, Behold, thy servants are ready to do whatsoever my lord the king shall appoint.

King David left himself no choice but to flee and to do so immediately because many in Jerusalem would be killed and God expected there to be peace in Jerusalem which was true in the time of Solomon and only now when the Lord returns to be King of Jerusalem for one thousand years and there will be true peace in Jerusalem.

Jerusalem may have been destroyed had war with Absalom occurred there.

There were many servants at the Palace all devoted to King David, but not enough to hold off an army.

David had his children and his wives to think about and their safety.

David took all his wives and his concubines but ten, which causes us to think back to the things that Nathan had told to David.

2Sa 12:11 Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie with thy wives in the sight of this sun.
2Sa 12:12 For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun.

The court of David did not desert King David.

Absalom had perverted self-assurance and no proper sense of his own weaknesses.

Absalom chose evil advisers who were more like Judas Iscariot than righteous men.

In fleeing David left ten concubines behind to take care of the royal palace.

*2Sa 15:16 And the king went forth, and all his household after him. And the king left ten women, which were concubines, to keep the house.
2Sa 15:17 And the king went forth, and all the people after him, and tarried in a place that was far off.

The king and the officers of his court and his household brought forth a sizable number of people, but not enough to protect them.

All David’s wives and his children and all of his concubines but ten went with him, leaving ten concubines behind in charge of the palace, expecting them to be safe from harm.

Most believe that this place described as “a place described as afar off” was actually a pavilion overlooking the Kidron Valley, known as “The Far House”.

This was a place where King David stopped until all those with him were assembled to get better organized for the journey to safety.

This is also where David’s bodyguard would gather and they would cross the Kidron Valley only when everything was ready for orderly progress when they could travel at a faster pace.

A confused mob breeds panic and invites attack!

We should also notice that most of the official court officials elected to live or die with King David rather than turn to Absalom.

*2Sa 15:18 And all his servants passed on beside him; and all the Cherethites, and all the Pelethites, and all the Gittites, six hundred men which came after him from Gath, passed on before the king.

The Cherethites and the Pelethites were mercenary soldiers, many of who had been with David when he was fleeing from King Saul and had now become David’s personal body guard and a central part of David’s army.

Benaiah was their commander and a dedicated soldier to King David.

Many of the Cherethites were of a Philistine clan who left the Philistines to be with David.

The name Pelethite means runner or courier who were also part of David’s bodyguards but would sometimes be David’s couriers to other nations or otherwise used because of their loyalty.

The Gittites of which Ittai was named were also Philistines who were loyal to King David.

Many of these men were known as mighty men of valor and great warriors who would not abandon David for any reason.

2Sa 15:21 And Ittai answered the king, and said, As the LORD liveth, and as my lord the king liveth, surely in what place my lord the king shall be, whether in death or life, even there also will thy servant be.
2Sa 15:22 And David said to Ittai, Go and pass over. And Ittai the Gittite passed over, and all his men, and all the little ones that were with him.

David would not allow the Ark of the Covenant to be removed from Jerusalem and sent it back by Zadok the High Priest.

If the Lord does not travel within us then He is not with us in our actions!

2Sa 15:29 Zadok therefore and Abiathar carried the ark of God again to Jerusalem: and they tarried there.

They could also help David better from Jerusalem and we know that God has chosen Jerusalem.

And David proceeded to cross the Mount of Olives.

*2Sa 15:30 And David went up by the ascent of mount Olivet, and wept as he went up, and had his head covered, and he went barefoot: and all the people that was with him covered every man his head, and they went up, weeping as they went up.

The covering of the head symbolized the heavy grief that David suffered during this time and David travelled barefoot, which was a sign of deep humiliation.

Most believe that it was upon the Mount of Olives where David composed the Third Psalm.

Psa 3:1 A Psalm of David, when he fled from Absalom his son. LORD, how are they increased that trouble me! many are they that rise up against me.
Psa 3:2 Many there be which say of my soul, There is no help for him in God. Selah.
Psa 3:4 I cried unto the LORD with my voice, and he heard me out of his holy hill. Selah.
Psa 3:5 I laid me down and slept; I awaked; for the LORD sustained me.
Psa 3:6 I will not be afraid of ten thousands of people, that have set themselves against me round about.
Psa 3:7 Arise, O LORD; save me, O my God: for thou hast smitten all mine enemies upon the cheek bone; thou hast broken the teeth of the ungodly.
Psa 3:8 Salvation belongeth unto the LORD: thy blessing is upon thy people. Selah.

No doubt that even with his faults, King David was still loved of God and a great King of Israel.

We next see Ziba bring the King and his followers some nourishment along with a story of the possible rebellion of Mephibosheth.

2Sa 16:3 And the king said, And where is thy master’s son? And Ziba said unto the king, Behold, he abideth at Jerusalem: for he said, To day shall the house of Israel restore me the kingdom of my father.
2Sa 16:4 Then said the king to Ziba, Behold, thine are all that pertained unto Mephibosheth. And Ziba said, I humbly beseech thee that I may find grace in thy sight, my lord, O king.

David did not know whether to believe him or not, but he welcomed the nourishment that he brought.

This is probably when King David elected to divide the land of Saul between Mephibosheth and Ziba which was being fair to Ziba according to the laws of Moses.

Another man related to King Saul, Shimei felt David deserved what was happening to him and cursed David with every breath and David just allowed him to do so as he did feel as if he had been cursed when he was just suffering as Jehovah had said he would.

The Word of God is never wrong and this world will soon see the reality of the truth of God!

By this time Absalom had come to Jerusalem with an army of traitors to Israel.

*2Sa 16:15 And Absalom, and all the people the men of Israel, came to Jerusalem, and Ahithophel with him.

Ahithophel was a man of the Jews who had been David’s private councilor and among the Jews his counsels were regarded as oracles.

In other words though he was not a prophet it was believed that his councils were divinely given or he communicated the divine will of God to men.

Anybody in their right mind would have thought that such a man would never have turned against King David because David was God’s choice to be King of Israel but he did.

He also had a son named Eliam who was one of David’s bodyguards.

It is this Eliam who was considered to be the father of Bathsheba, making this Ahithophel being her grandfather and it is this thing that possibly made him turn on King David.

The Bible does not say and these things are speculation. He certainly did turn on King David and the king was alarmed that he had done so.

2Sa 15:31 And one told David, saying, Ahithophel is among the conspirators with Absalom. And David said, O LORD, I pray thee, turn the counsel of Ahithophel into foolishness.

David found a way to counteract the council of Ahithophel through another dedicated councilor named Hushai.

Again David wrote another Psalm.

Psa 55:12 For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him:
Psa 55:13 But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance.
Psa 55:14 We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company.

King David was better off without this excuse of a man!

He was wrong but Jehovah is always right as told by Nathan to David.

*2Sa 16:21 And Ahithophel said unto Absalom, Go in unto thy father’s concubines, which he hath left to keep the house; and all Israel shall hear that thou art abhorred of thy father: then shall the hands of all that are with thee be strong.
2Sa 16:22 So they spread Absalom a tent upon the top of the house; and Absalom went in unto his father’s concubines in the sight of all Israel.

We can see the hatred of Ahithophel and Absalom that they had for David and the Word of God holds true again.

2Sa 12:11 Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie with thy wives in the sight of this sun.
2Sa 12:12 For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun.

Wickedness always seems to find its way into many families and it will find its way into our own families if we cannot walk with the Lord Jesus Christ.

Absalom had taken over Jerusalem without a fight because this is what King David wanted.

Over the years the City of Jerusalem has been overrun and destroyed many times but King David saw fit to not be the cause of the destruction of Jerusalem in his days.

Melchizedek was the first godly King of Jerusalem known as Salem on that day as he met with Abraham.

Gen 14:18 And Melchizedek king of Salem brought forth bread and wine: and he was the priest of the most high God.

Notice there were no Muslims in that day so they do not have any legal hold to Jerusalem.

Psa 76:2 In Salem also is his tabernacle, and his dwelling place in Zion.

Many believe that the place where Abraham was ready to offer Isaac was the place where Solomon built the first Temple and no doubt this thing took place on one of the hills of Moriah but it was King David who bought the land where the Temple was first built.

2Sa_24:22 And Araunah said unto David, Let my lord the king take and offer up what seemeth good unto him: behold, here be oxen for burnt sacrifice, and threshing instruments and other instruments of the oxen for wood.

1Ch_21:20 And Ornan turned back, and saw the angel; and his four sons with him hid themselves. Now Ornan was threshing wheat.
1Ch_21:23 And Ornan said unto David, Take it to thee, and let my lord the king do that which is good in his eyes: lo, I give thee the oxen also for burnt offerings, and the threshing instruments for wood, and the wheat for the meat offering; I give it all.

King David first bought the place where the Dome of the Rock is now built by trespassers and David later bought all the land now called the Temple Mount.

We see that David bought the land of the where the Dome of the Rock was later built for fifty shekels of silver.

2Sa 24:24 And the king said unto Araunah, Nay; but I will surely buy it of thee at a price: neither will I offer burnt offerings unto the LORD my God of that which doth cost me nothing. So David bought the threshingfloor and the oxen for fifty shekels of silver.
2Sa 24:25 And David built there an altar unto the LORD, and offered burnt offerings and peace offerings. So the LORD was intreated for the land, and the plague was stayed from Israel.

We next see where David bought all the land where the Temple Mount exists for six hundred shekels of gold by weight.

1Ch 21:24 And king David said to Ornan, Nay; but I will verily buy it for the full price: for I will not take that which is thine for the LORD, nor offer burnt offerings without cost.
1Ch 21:25 So David gave to Ornan for the place six hundred shekels of gold by weight.
1Ch 21:26 And David built there an altar unto the LORD, and offered burnt offerings and peace offerings, and called upon the LORD; and he answered him from heaven by fire upon the altar of burnt offering.

It was King David who owned all the land of the Temple Mount which he gave to the Lord for a place of worship to be built.

There were no Muslims at this time they did not exist!

Sorry to chase that rabbit but it needs to be said.

The army of King David was about to meet that army of Absalom in a terrible place for war and a place where Absalom lost his life along with many good Israelites that day.

*2Sa 18:14 Then said Joab, I may not tarry thus with thee. And he took three darts in his hand, and thrust them through the heart of Absalom, while he was yet alive in the midst of the oak.
2Sa 18:15 And ten young men that bare Joab’s armour compassed about and smote Absalom, and slew him.

First Joab kills Absalom and it was that long hair he was so proud of that caused him to be the target of Joab’s darts.

And David finds out about the death of his son.

*2Sa 18:32 And the king said unto Cushi, Is the young man Absalom safe? And Cushi answered, The enemies of my lord the king, and all that rise against thee to do thee hurt, be as that young man is.
2Sa 18:33 And the king was much moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!

Our children may not always make us happy, but they are still our children!

Amen